Sunday, August 16, 2015

Stinking Hot Weather, No Air-Conditioning, and Poor Furry Friends

This month has been hot. I really don't want to complain because it wasn't long ago I was crying for summer while attempting to start my car in -35 degree Celsius Northern Ontario weather. Why I bought a vehicle with no block heater escapes me.
I'm dealing with the heat, but I feel absolutely terrible for my poor cats. They just lie around all day, uncomfortably restless trying to find the most cool spot in the apartment. Hydro up here is like gold, and they will charge you up the ass for using an air conditioner between 7am-7pm (and of course, the hottest part of the day when you need it the most, runs during that time block), and with my budget currently, I really cant afford for a A/C unit AND the high cost of operating it. I needed a one-time cost to make my little fur bags more comfortable.

I tried giving them a cool bath-while they quietly tolerate a normal bath, they freaked right out when I tried to put them in cool water (not cold-slightly colder than normal room temp). I thought my one cat swas gonna tear my face off in her panic. So I started to look for a solution, other than putting ice cubes in their water tower. I went to every pet place in this crater (A real hole of a city-Sudbury) and could not find ANYTHING. So I did some online research. Petsmart (online only) had some kind of cooling "pressure activated pad" that recharged itself when not in use.... I had a hard time finding these claims believable. So, I decided there had to be other cooling pads available in the world wide web.

I did find one thing that was a really great idea-it did not have any special "cooling" super powers, but still would work to cool your feline friend. it was essentially a cot that raises your pet off the ground, and had mesh to ensure airflow all around the furry blob. The cat's belly is the spot where they hold the most heat (which is why when they sleep they will curl in a ball to retain heat-body temperatures in warm-blooded animals drop when sleeping). So, knowing this, it allows air flow to the belly underneath and will aid in keeping your cat's body temp at a more comfortable level.

There were quite a few available, some from china at low costs that I didn't take seriously, some which needed water (despite their claims of being durable, which was more aimed for dogs, I wouldn't trust it with those little ninja hooks at the end of their paws) and others which consisted of a gel.
Most that I found were meant for dogs, but I'm sure they'd be great for cats, other than the water-bed ones (the highest rated and most raved about was the K&H Cool Bed III Pet Bed) and pressure activated ones, as I'm not completely sure a cat would be heavy enough to "activate" it (they are made for a dog's weight likely). TheGreenPetShop cool pet pad was one of these pressure activated pads, and did have 4/4+ ratings on more than 1 site-so, if your cat is Jabba the Hut, why not give it a try.

Bed Bath & Beyond had Chillz™ Comfort Cooling Gel Pet Pad, which depicted a small dog laying on the mat, which I can pretty much guarantee my cat weighs more than. It is rated at 4 stars, consists of a gel core, and comes in sizes from XS to XL ($10.99-$49.99) and you don't have to refrigerate, freeze it OR use hydro. A few complaints were that it was smaller than expected (so always size up or check measurements) and that the coolness did not last longer than 30min when they tried it themselves-I'd be interested to try it myself and do temperature readings. Some said their dogs loved it, others said they wouldn't go near it. This was a top contender for me.

I found a blog that compared their so-called top 5. I will only include the 2 on this list I felt were suitable for cats. For reference, here is the website: http://www.petsgetthebest.com/cooling/
The Canine Cooler bed was rated highest on the list for a gel style pet bed (below the water bed which was #1) and boasted a 4.3 average, 5 for quality, 5 for aesthetically pleasing, and 3 for popularity, likely do to price whaich brought down its overall rating.  A medium size 26x36 will cost you around $170 after shipping, but if it is as great as it says it is, it will be worth the money as it does not use electricity, and makes your kitties more comfortable, and is my first choice out of everything I have seen.
My 2nd and last choice which barely made it (only given a 3 out of 5 rating) is only on here for picky kitties that may want something a little more plush:  The Furimals Warming and Cooling Pet Mat, which can be cooled in the refrigerator or warmed in the microwave to keep your dog (or cat) warm OR cool for hours (alternately, you can make a cover out of a thinner material for other pads on this list to make it more appealing if they dislike laying on plastic). A small is around $20 at amazon.ca

After researching different types, I would likely go for the Canine Cooler bed. It may be more expensive, but maybe its a good example of cost=quality: you get what you pay for. Ultimately, $170 would easily be less 2 months of hydro with an air conditioner (I normally have a 2 month hydro bill of $160 without an air conditioner-and I am very conservative with hydro use). My 2nd choice would be the Chillz Comfort Cooling Gel Pet Pad, and my 3rd choice would be to get a cot with mesh to increase airflow to aid in the prevention of overheating. Lets face it, this cot thing might be what your cats enjoys the most, because although we love them, sometimes they can be real ass-holes.
A medium size The K&H Pet Cot will cost around $45 but you can get 20% off your first order for new-customer sign up. There is also a K&H Coolin' Gel Pet Cot available.

I hope those of you who are struggling with a similar situation found what they were looking for!

Thanks for reading, and if you have had any success with these mats etc please give me some feedback on what you think of these products, and, of course, feel free to suggest items I did not mention that you feel should be :)


A Lifestyle Change

I've been high strung and anxious my whole life, never able to turn my brain off-especially at night when I'm attempting to fall asleep in my restless tossing and turning. I used to do yoga using a beginner's VHS (I know, VHS what?) and I don't even have a VHS player anymore. It has been a while since I have done it, but yoga seemed to be the only thing that allowed my brain to shut off because I was focousing on my breathing and holding my position. I really need to get back into it on a regular basis, I am always so tense and stressed out from work, and I really need something to break the tension. People laugh, but yoga is a great workout and meditation all in one. It will tone EVERYTHING and uses core strength and improves balance. I've wanted to get into it again but didn't know where to go. No way was I paying a shitload of money 3-4 times a week for a yoga class... so from the suggestion of others I was given 5 online options that won't cost you a thing. I have not yet tried any, but I intend to try all 5.
1) Yogaglo
2) Codyapp.com
3) Myyoga.com
4) doyouyoga.com
5) Yoga with Adrienne (this one was recommended by 2 people)

If anyone has tried any of these, please let me know what you like or dislike about them!
If you know of any other great yoga sites, please let me know as well :)

Monday, October 14, 2013

The Broken Hearted Breaks a Heart

I Know It Will Never Be Enough

December 10, 2008 at 10:24pm
I know it will never be enough to say I’m sorry.
I know it will never be enough to say I tried.
You may not believe me when I say I loved you.
And you probably believe me even less,
When I say I still do.

I never meant to hurt you,
I hope you understand.
That wasn’t how I thought it would end.
I was so happy,
And you meant so much to me.
But I was beaten down emotionally,
Beat down so bad,
That I felt numb to you.
I wasn’t myself…
Then I got scared.
What if it would always be this way?
What if it would never end?
Just a bunch of ongoing unexpected bends.
Never straight,
Never sure.
Someone always questioning,
Throwing in another curve.

It had nothing to do with you,
It wasn’t your fault.
It seemed to me no one wanted to see us together.
And in regards to me and your family,
I questioned if we’d ever get along.
I know it shouldn’t matter,
That I should only be there for you,
But I just couldn’t take it.
Then one day, I brought your world to a halt.
I pushed you away.
And to think in the beginning I thought,
That we were both in it to stay.
I'm sorry but I just couldn’t take it.

I know I hurt you,
And it hurt me to,
To see what I was doing to you,
And to know what I had lost.
We were both shut out in the cold and frost.
They said I cheated,
They say I wasn’t true,
But do you think I would really do that to you?
The things we always fought about,
Had nothing to do with us.
It was always because of the seeds they strew.

You were amazing.
You would have done anything for me.
Time and time again you waited for me.
And I hate myself for what I’ve done to you.
I just felt like I had no choice but to run.
I’m sorry I let you down.
I know I can never completely fix what I broke,
And I understand if you’ve lost all hope.

When I hear something about you,
Being seen with some other girl,
The thought twists my stomach in knots.
I hold back my tears,
While people keep whispering in each other’s ears,
And swallow the lump in my throat.
I can’t expect you to hold out for me forever,
I guess I’ll have to accept it when you move on.
I feel so caught and blundered.
Sometimes I have to wonder,
Was he the one?
Just know, that whatever happens,
I will never forget you.

I know it will never be enough to say I’m sorry.
I know it will never be enough to say I tried.
You may not believe me when I say I loved you.
And you probably believe me even less,
When I say I still do.

The Simple Things (love can be dangerous)

The Simple Things

January 21, 2009 at 9:42pm
I’ve been going out a lot more lately.
But everywhere I go,
I keep hoping I’ll see your face.
When I’m home and all alone,
You’re the one I think of,
The one I want there beside me.

I know this sounds so cliché;
But I’ve always wanted to kiss you in the rain.
To stand in a thunderstorm,
And feel the drops of rain stream down my face.
With you I feel like I’ve found my place.
But this world is so fast paced,
We don’t make time for the simple things in life,
Those little simple things that make it special.

We didn’t really make time for the small things,
We don’t even make much time for eachother anymore now.
Oh, how I’ve wanted you to randomly take my hand,
And ask me to dance to a song that’s playing on the radio.
Whether it’s in the kitchen, the middle of the street, wherever.
And when I’m sad and tears stream down my face,
I long for you to take your hand and wipe them away.
That’s all you have to do to brighten my day.

It seems the harder I squeeze the more you slip away.
I miss you more with each passing day.
I can’t take anymore of this feeling of doubt
When I come see you I feel like everything is okay
When I leave I wonder if you feel the same

I don’t want to play anymore games.
I don’t want to keep looking for something that isn’t there,
So please, if I am not what you want,
Let me know so I can move on,
Because it gets harder everyday.

Naive

Naive- something I wrote from 2010
And it all comes down to this; I let you in, I get let down... If not you than its always someone else, breaking me down into a thousand pieces and throwing them around, not caring to see where the pieces fall. No more second chances, no more second tries. no more forgiveness, no more lies. I refuse to be treated the way I do, and I will no longer advert my eyes, to choose not to see what I don't want to see.
I don't know what I saw in you, but what I see before me now is with foreign eyes, and what I saw is now nothing but a faded false memory. I see a little too late that I was nothing to you; and now you are nothing to me.

"Broken Heart"- a very accurate term

late night thoughts- a little peek inside my head

Having your heart 'broken' is quite accurate in the way that your heart actually feels like it is being ripped apart. First, your heart races and your adrenaline pulses through your veins, like your body is bracing for a physical attack. Then you get this sinking feeling in your stomach, as if you swallowed a bowl full of cement. Your throat tightens like you are being choked and you hold your breath... then for what feels like agonizing hours, your heart seems to stop and time seems to stand still... then comes the stabbing, twisting feeling in your chest. In fact, a 'heart break' seems to create real physical pain.

Tuesday, September 3, 2013

Sleepless Nights, Boredom... and Jeans

I absolutely hate when you have so much to do the next day that that's all you can think about and sleep eludes you. You think about how much you need to sleep and it gets even harder to doze off. Counting backwards from 100 with each breath out didn't work, so I decided to get up. I crossed a bunch of items off my to-do list, and then came the next task of the day-go to the dreaded clinic. So I'm sitting at the walk in clinic to get my prescription renewed... bored out of my head, about to loose it on the mother across from me who can't control her overly annoying child as I am already irritated-I can feel a tension headache building. Just then I look down... and notice my very unattractive bulge in the front of my pants-it looked like I was packing something big in there. For a male... I'm sure they wouldn't mind having something like that for the opposite sex to gawk at... But for me-utterly embarrassing. Regardless, they are my favorite jeans because they have an awesome wash, have awesome texture and perfect thickness-and best of all they give me hips and make my butt look amazing (hard to do sometimes because I'm so thin and for lack of a better word, kinda curveless). In my boredom I began to think of other ways jeans were unattractive or a pain in the ass.
#1  Gaping or indecent exposure of your crack. No one wants to see that shit. so please, save all of our eyes. Maybe they fit your calves, thighs and butt perfectly, but if the top band is too wide-throw 'em away or get them fixed- or at least, PLEASE wear a belt
#2 People constantly pulling up their pants. Its distracting... and has the potential to violate some eyes with butt cleavage.
#3 Camel toe-no explanation needed. It's just not cute.
#4 Pants that are too tight- on me, I look like a skeleton-like I have an eating disorder. For larger girls, it can make you look like a cone if they are tapered in at the bottom, or (I hate saying this, I don't like to judge) but it can look like overstuffed sausages.
#5 Pants deliberately hanging off your butt so that I can see the colour and/or print of a person's underwear/boxers. Common', you can't really think that's classy.
#6 Flood pants- No-sorry they don't fall into the category of "cropped", they are noticeably at that awkward length that others will point at.
#7 Pants that are superrrr long. Its like $20  bucks people. Get 'em chopped. They aren't your dogs nuts.
#8 Pants that look amazinggggg on you-until you sit and cross your  legs. Then, you magically sprout an imaginary penis.
#9 Zippers, that no matter how many times you pull them up, they continue to fall down multiple times a day. If you insist on wearing these types of pants, do yourself and all of us all a favour and wear underwear.
#10 waistbands that are too tight- no one likes a muffin top.
#11 Pants that are too big- they just look sloppy.
I've learned after buying many pairs of jeans (that later required belts every time you wear them) that BEFORE you buy them, of course try them on! Wiggle around a bit in them, see if they begin to recede to your knees. And do not forget to DO THE SIT TEST! (with your back facing the mirror, go into a squat- go a little lower than you would on a chair- and if it gaps, if it shows your buttcrack, immediately discard  unless you planned to get them professionally altered)